ngayon lang ulit ako magpopost... and i don't even know if the situation i am in is a good thing or not...
i have this friend. one special friend who used to be someone i am head-over-heels in love with. things didn't work out as i had initially hoped for but what happened was better. we became good friends and i've always been thankful for this wonderful turn-out.
he is special because he's one of the few people whom i trust so much. special dahil hindi lang siya isang kaibigan---siya ay isang mentor, adviser, companion. special dahil maraming mga bagay ang sa kanya ko lang nasasabi. there are things that not even my closest friends know--- but he knows. he listens and if needed, he gives me the most unexpected pieces of advice, na madalas ay sinusunod ko. i must admit, he contributes so much to my life. sabi nga niya, "spice" siya sa buhay ko.
did i mention that we talk a lot? super. i can talk to him for hours and still want more. masarap kasi siyang kausap, masaya, sensible, interesting, at nakakaengross. we can talk of literally anything and everything under the sun. andami na nga naming napag-usapan but still, when we talk, parang hindi kami nauubusan ng pag-uusapan. we can talk of even the most "off" topics---topics you wouldn't normally talk about with other people especially guys.
hay... itutuloy ko pa ba?
then it happened. we hit a certain topic which started as a joke and later turned into a regular center of our every conversation. so it was a joke... or so i thought. until one day, the stupid part of me made myself ask him: are you serious?
i certainly wished he'd answer "anu ka ba... siyempre hindi." but no, he didn't. he said "yes" and i hate to use the cliche "butterflies in my stomach" but that's what i felt i had then---butterflies in my stomach. no, not just in my stomach. i had them in every part of me.
maybe i'm to blame, for i started it. but i don't take all the credit. he is, after all, the one who first took it seriously.
i wished he didn't ask me what i thought about it but yes, he did. and there. i cannot be more confused or rattled. i was left to choose between taking a risk that might ruin our beautiful and one-of-a-kind friendship and not taking it, but giving myself a million what-if's. i know i'll forever wonder what it would have been like if i took the risk. but then again, there were a lot of other considerations.
confused talaga ako. my friends would kill me once they find out that i do want to say yes. they'd kill me... because i would commit a social boo-boo and a lot of other rules. still, i'm not entirely sure if i can bring myself to saying yes because well, there's a lot to think about.
i am given 43 days (42 days as of posting) to think about it, and think hard. no pressure from him. pressure from myself.
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